#169 – How to Focus Your Goals

High Noon April 5, 2023

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Our North Star goals should be congruent with Maslow’s hierarchy of needs.

Setting goals that are beyond what we believe are our capacity can be exhilarating and frightening at the same time. When we set our goals, we experience a burst of motivation and energy as we begin to take our vision. But, as time passes and we encounter obstacles, our vision starts to fade, leading us to question ourselves and allowing negative emotions to arise.

So how do we avoid these negative emotions?

Achieving goals is a gradual process that entails creating a strong foundation of physical and emotional wellness, love, and connection. And so when we focus on pampering ourselves—which means we listen to ourselves and provide our physical and emotional needs—we are slowly creating that foundation. When there is self-love and confidence, there is assurance no matter what obstacles there are, and the path to achieving our goals clears itself to us.

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	Richard & Mari Curry have been Blessed in married since December 2005 and have four children. They love working together as a team and are passionate about caring for others, especially in the realm of marriage development. After Mari received her Masters of Divinity from Cheongshim Theological Seminary, she and Richard served as co-pastors in Florida. Since then, they moved to New Jersey and over the years have happily served in a variety of ministry roles from music to education. All the while, working together to serve the Blessed Marriage Project and now High Noon Couples. They were a part of the founding team in 2013 and have been a part of it ever since. They currently serve as the directors of Highnoon Couples. They love the Energize! Retreats because they help realize True Parent’s desire for healthy couples and reminds us of Heavenly Parent’s love and hope for us all! Contact Mari at: mari@edu.highnoon.org
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